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  • My Purpose.


    One of the things I’ve been saying to our team more and more lately is… I’m here 17 years later because its still fun.

    If you sit anywhere near me, watch me on YouTube, etc you just kinda feel that I’m not out of gas, yet. Someday maybe, but as of today eff that.

    One other part of why work is fun, is that I get to be a part of some awesome people’s lives. It gives me purpose, let me give you a few examples…

    Being a part of special moments

    Last year I got to lean into one of my dreams for Seer very aggressively — start using our profits to help people at Seer get more financial value from their time here … we had a really strong year so I changed some things:

    1 — I decided to triple our student loan fund, from 12k to 36k. I quite literally have had people come to me in tears talking about how impactful it was to pay off their student loans, others have told me how our big # was the spark they needed to get paying those loans down. That 24k for me is meaningful, but I know deploying it this way is so much more meaningful.

    2 — I set aside ~130k to pay for a vacation for everyone in the company, and we forced them to at least plan it before the end of the year.

    I recently got an email from someone who had just got engaged, it was a team member of ours, her email said, between you paying for our vacation and posting cheap deals on scott’s cheap flights, I used that $$ to go to Sydney and my boyfriend proposed to me here.

    This picture gives me purpose, it reminds me that when we grow this business we have a chance to have real impact on people and we can be a small part of aiding in memories that will last a lifetime.

    This is actually the second engagement that happened on my dime 🙂 The first one was somewhere in Italy, where another team member got engaged. Viva la Seer.

    We’ve had people take their moms / dads on trips to foreign countries they haven’t been to in a decade or more. I’ve heard stories of a parent’s dream to visit their birthplace or something and Seer funded part of those trips. Helping someone pay down student loans, or take a vacation, or just be more financially comfortable gives me purpose.

    Connections:

    There are 2 moments in my career (so far) where I felt I was able to get a person connected to someone/something they were super passionate about. If we didn’t build & growth this company they might not have had those connections.

    The first one is Emily Allen getting to meet Patty McCord (She wrote Powerful, co-authored the Netflix culture deck, you know who she is!). The fact that no matter where Emily goes after her time at Seer she will have someone like Patty on speed dial if she needed to run a real problem by her makes me kinda feel like “my work here is complete”. I would say hands down Patty McCord is probably the one person that people in People Ops business wish they could send a text to when struggling with a tough decision. The value of that connection is greater than almost anything I could provide for Emily. Also pictured, Rand Fishkin, Emily is sitting between two people who had the biggest business books of last year.

    Rand, Emily, Patty

    Kati Polaski (who taught me BI tools) has been a fan of a certain brand for a LOOOOOONG time. She’s visited this brand’s campus over and over again over the last 10 years. She even made a pitch to me on why she should come with me to a certain European country because representatives from that brand were going to be at a conference I was speaking at, and this would be her opportunity to meet them. So you better believe she came along.

    She had a whole gameplan on how she was going to hunt the people from that brand down and show them some of our work.

    Well we never got anything out of that trip, but once day one of our business development people said, I’m going to go get this project Wil, can you help me? Knowing this was a brand that Kati had been wanting to work with, and the fact that she’s taught me so much about data, I was ecstatic to do everything I could to get get a chance to work on that brand. I haven’t had anyone at Seer say they want to work with a brand and try that hard to make it happen ever, so when we got a chance to present our work to that client at their HQ, I could barely present w/ her b/c I was so giddy that she was there to work on a brand she dreamed of working with well before she was at Seer. There she was showing them the way we sliced through millions of keywords to find opportunities for them.

    Knowing that Seer opens doors for people, That’s my purpose.

    Gratitude:

    For my 17th year anniversary the team got me a gift. Many of them gathered their funds and helped a teacher at a local grade school get an air conditioner for her classroom. So kids would be comfortable (and hopefully more focused). This is what my team did for me, it’s hard for me NOT to want to work my ass off for people like this!

    The amount of thank you cards I get, the kind words from so many team members keeps me going.

    I probably average 1 a week from someone on my team thanking me for something I did to support them / help them / etc. It just feels great.

    The amount of people (esp you Jamie B, Adam M, Steph, Meghan) who know I’ll work all day at my desk, never getting up for lunch that stop and say “can I get you something” means so so much.

    Helping the world express a bit more gratitude. That’s my purpose.

    Impact:

    This last week we had Seerfest, our 2nd conference. I want more than anything for Seer to be a company with an active and real impact on our community. Our most recent event we had speakers who quite literally speak all over the globe. To bring that level of talent to Seer to speak to marketers for about 200 dollars (typically seeing all of us would be $1,000 — $1,200) makes some of the best speakers accessible to folks who may never have a chance to see them, meet them, etc. Check, we’re impacting our marketing community.

    There’s also our local community, Seerfest allowed us to bring and put on stage young tech entrepreneurs via our partnership with Hopeworks in Camden. The “kids” from Hopeworks also got to meet these amazing speakers and also share their stories on a panel with a room full of marketers, many of which could use interns from Hopeworks (we have hired a couple of interns, one of which is now working with us) so when we try to bridge the digital divide, this helps us attempt to have an impact on our local communities. We raised 30,000 for the organization!

    Lastly, to see someone like Kristin Bigness from Seer get a chance to show the world her talents, seriously checks a big impact box for me too. Using our platform as a company to help grow the careers of our team is just so fulfilling.

    The ultimate dream:

    Here it is….

    My dream is someday I’m sitting around at a BBQ and there’s maybe 20–30 former co-workers joking, working the grill, chasing after kids. Laughing.

    The stress is low. The stress is low in some small part b/c I didn’t exit when “I was good”, and hit “my number”. The dream is that it’s me and the families of 20-30 people I’ve worked with who all have worked their assess off to grow Seer, so they have phantom equity in Seer and I can look at each of them, and know that they too have lower stress because they picked me up and ran shit, they took problems they used to run up to me, and said, I’mma handle this….

    As people pull up to this barbeque,
    People’s cars are paid off (lowering stress)
    No one in this group has student loans anymore (lowering stress)
    A few people paid off their houses (lowering stress)
    A few have college tuition covered for their kids already (lowering stress)

    As you can get from the above what I’m trying to do is cap my upside, but KEEP GROWING THE COMPANY, so that the people who helped us to grow the most can get a bit of a life I’ve been living for the last few years, one with low financial stress.

    Whether this comes in the form of an exit with a big payout, or me turning our phantom equity in to LARGE regular bonuses, I don’t know. I’m still working on that. This year I intend to take an extra chunk of our profit and instead of keeping it, I feel I might get more value out of expressing gratitude.

    That is one of the things that has me so excited. This is the upside of running a long term profitable business. I have profits to actually dole out to the team, no one has to work for the hope someday of a big payout, maybe we just keep being profitable and redistributing the profits back to the team. Now to get to this vision Seer needs to execute well over the years, but this is my dream, and I hope that it comes true. Whenever I have my last breaths on this planet, I want to close my eyes knowing that I didn’t go apeshit on buying 4 houses for myself, and buying expensive cars (I might buy 1 or 2 nice things), it’ll be knowing that these people who’ve had my back are able to live a life with lower financial stress. Its knowing their kids are taken care of, that is what I hope happens.

    That is my purpose.

  • Finding someone to run your biz when its outgrown your skillset


    Finding someone who can run your biz when your business outgrows your abilities can go great or horrific but its highly likely to be one of the two. 
    I want to share anecdotal stories that all occurred recently between me and my #2 (And the company’s #1), Crystal O’Neill.

    Before we do, lets take a step back and have some perspective. If you business grows enough to where your “problems” are “how do I find someone to help me run and manage it?” Take a second in your crazy whirlwind to reflect on the fact that you got to that point. Good work, now lets get into it.

    How replaceable are you?

    You’ve got to take an inventory of yourself. If you run the business by the book (Max value of the asset), you actually are making it easier for someone to come in and take over. 
    If you are more quirky and find yourself waking up some days wanting to do stuff that isn’t “hit margins” & “grow 40% YoY” then you gotta have someone who “gets you” and can help you see how you arrive at your decisions.
    Examples for me, are I’ll tank margins to place bets on the future. We’ve given several people 2–3 raises in a year (Crystal got 3–4 double digit raises in her first year with me).
    That means at any time, Crystal could get a “hey I’m thinking we grind margins to zero but triple R&D this year” kind of thoughts.

    What’s your number & when do you want it?

    The more you can paint a specific target at a specific time, the easier it is for a new operator to come in and build a plan to back into that. If you can say 5 years from now I want to sell the business & get a 5x EBIDTA, that’s much easier for an operator to come in and do. When you tell an operator that their job is to be “good to the team” & “do what’s right” & “grow the business” well those are HIGHLY subjective, making their job much harder. Crystal knows my 5 year goal is to love the work, the people we get to work with, and the clients we get to do it for every day. That is a REALLY hard target to hit.

    I don’t have advice, I have stories of how I knew I had the right person

    I hope for every founder out there who thinks, hmmmmm maybe I should get someone else to come in and run this company, that these examples give you some “sights and sounds” of what has transpired that helped me to identify someone who could take over for me, and can balance running the business operationally and culturally.

    Here’s 5 small things I noticed in the last 3–4 months that are daily reminders I got the right person running this business.

    Keep an eye out for these kinds of small things as people are coming up in your company, the stories here are just recent examples of things Crystal has been doing for 12 years at Seer. I’ve seen a lot of founders crash and burn on bringing in a “grown up” to help run the business, and it’s worked so well for me that I feel I owe it to share what helped me to feel confident in having someone come in and run the business.

    Cleaning coffee spills in the fire exit
    Crystal and I finished our 1 on 1 on the seventh floor of the Seerplex. She told me whats happening in the business and I listened, she told me where she thought my time investment would be most helpful and I committed to focusing. She filled me in on some legal updates and some people leaving Seer. With my update and marching orders our meeting was over. 
    As we opened the door to rush to our next meeting and walked down the emergency stairs we bumped into a newer employee (less than 1 year and pretty entry level), the employee spilled a few drops of her coffee in the fire exit. 
    Literally 5–10 drops worth, in a concrete and cinder block emergency exit, Crystal told the team member (who was apologetic) to go make their meeting and Crystal grabbed a roll of paper towels to clean up 5 drops of coffee in a rarely used an emergency exit floor. In her 12th year at Seer, she still sees her role the way I do… We’re not above anything to help. To me this matters as much as knowing how to manage a P&L.

    Raises / Trust in Me
    I began doing my annual check on our wage gap discrepancy and saw it got worse year over year. I was like WTF. Then it all made sense, we had some high ranking women execs/managers who weren’t at Seer anymore. Those few moves moved the average enough to get me a bit uncomfortable. But then I noticed something…Crystal has also given raises to 2 men in our company, 2 people who were stepping way up, so she gave them raises (and didn’t clear it with me), which is a GOOD thing.

    But what caused our wage gap to be askew was that she gave some people raises above her salary.

    So lets just back up a second, the person who runs the whole company, just gave 2 people raises that put them over her salary, and I didn’t know. 
    She is running a company and was the 3rd highest paid employee, WTF! 
    So I made sure that she and I would always make the same going forward. The moral of the story is humility and trust. Crystal knew that when I found out I would do right by her and when I confronted her, she said that was only salary and that she has a profit share so her overall was greater I was like yeah whatever.

    Again, this is the kind of thing a leader just does. I’m appreciative to have earned her trust over the years for her to know if I ever see something off, I’ll make it right. I thought our maternity leave worked a certain way 6 years ago when Crystal took off, upon her coming back and me finding out that it didn’t work for her how I thought, I ended up paying her the difference (I think it was in the 10’s of thousands) she never brought it up, but by me jumping on it and making it right then, I think it earned her trust that in the end I’ll make things right, and she has done the same for her direct reports.

    Volunteering

    Working w/ Habitat to clean a warehouse.

    I had an open day, 10 or so people had volunteered at habitat for humanity, one by one people dropped off, including me. 3 were left and Crystal was still going to go she made a commitment, she JUST KNOWS that volunteering is a deep part of our culture and that any time she spends doing that she is living out our values and leading by example.. I felt shamed a bit I found an excuse to not go, and here she was living out our values better than I was, so I said eff this, I’m going too.

    She leads by example, and that made me follow her, she knows that making our communities better is a real value of ours and in spite of her having 1001 things going on she chose to work in a warehouse cleaning up for habitat knowing full well that in doing so, she was going to go home spend time with the kiddos and be working late that night.

    People Matter

    Hanging in SD making 1:1 time for pretty much everyone

    There’s a theme here, Crystal doesn’t have a ton of free time, but she makes time for the things that matter and is willing to do the work to get it all done.
    I was recently blown away when in our 1:1 she said she was going to grab coffee with one of our remote team members who lived about 2 hours away from the office. Crystal’s logic was simple…we had a co worker whom she hadn’t met in person, who lived only 2 hours away, so Crystal decided to drive 1 hour and meet them half way. She worked “remote” for a day with one of our remote co-workers who lived close enough for that to happen.

    She just instinctively knows that if I could I would fly to everyone’s house to meet up with our remote team members if I could, but I have limits on how much I travel and its just not possible (She did approve my budget to have 2 apartments in Philly so remote team members could come to the office any time they want and spend time with co workers how ever often they want…we even pay for 2 flights per year for remote peeps to fly to a HQ). Lets take a step back on that too, I ask Crystal for all kinds of shit that financially could be seen as “hurting” our financials, but I just feel are right for culture, what is great is that she finds a way to make those things happen. Apartments in Philly and SD cost us REAL money, hits margins, but we want to make it easy for our team to come visit another office and stay as long as they want.

    Here is our Director of Finance’s desk when you walk by:

    She’s recently realized that our exec team should have more remote empathy, so she is forcing all of us to work remote for 2 weeks a year, so we can have more empathy for remote team members. That was her idea 100%. Love that she did that.

    5 — SQL

    All these stories are about culture. This one is about vision…I have been quite pushy about big data if you haven’t noticed 🙂 
    One day Crystal just mentions in passing that she is taking SQL classes an has passed them. As if she didn’t have enough to do she quietly just got it done. She didn’t tell me what she was going to do, she just did it.

    If you are the kind of person that likes working in the business instead of on the business (like me, I love hands on work, client work, etc) don’t let people tell you you shouldn’t. BUUUUUT what you need to realize is that if your company is growing fast the company might end up outgrowing your skills. Holding on too long is dangerous.

    I never found it fun to sharpen my saw on getting better at operating the company, I wanted to innovate, work with clients, and help my team members to grow. It was such a drain to learn the differences been net and gross margin trends. If you find yourself like this start looking now in your company for an eventual replacement, Crystal was with me 6–7 years and on that journey kept getting more and more responsibilities. Operationally she was learning and was more of a natural than I was for sure. So when it came time for me to find someone, operations was important, but wasn’t enough, they also had to know how to check what is operationally good for the company and what is good for the culture. I got to see that with each promotion, she never allowed the ops to dominate decision making. It influenced decisions of course but I never had to come in and say “have you thought how that is going to effect the people here???”

    How’d I get Crystal? Craigslist. 🙂 A reminder that you can find talent all around you. The bigger of a deal culture is to you, the more you are going to have to start grooming people early to see who might in 4–5 years be able to take more and more operational and cultural responsibilities. You have to see these people in action to know they can represent all the crazy in your head and not lean too far to “operational metrics”. Its’s part of why I really enjoy it 17 years later.

  • The executives at my company don’t “get it”


    Our company was never supposed to be this big, I suppressed our team size to never be over 10 folks for a few years b/c I wanted to stay small. Then I realized I love watching people at Seer, and that growth often came from them getting new challenges / problems to solve for our company, and growth creates problems.

    This 1 question helps me combat sentiment that happens in any growing organization and also helps me identify problem solvers:

    “Execs are out of touch”

    We hear it, the execs / managers don’t know the work I do. Ok, so how many times have you filled out what you were proud of? “Well, uh, …”

    As your company grows, this sentiment will rise up! I find that having this weekly question helps me (and people’s peers) say to those people “are you taking the 5 minutes 1–2x a month to put these on the company’s radar?”

    If that answer is No, then I get to say … that is on you.

    “Execs don’t have time for me”

    This past month I had an intern fill it out, and I responded to her, it felt great to open that dialogue with someone whom I would not typically work with.

    More importantly when I have limited space in my calendar, I need to know what people are working on and how that contributes to the organization to choose whom I grab coffee with that week, and on any given week it can be a intern up to an executive. The power is in their hands.

    By publishing my goals company wide (along with the tactics to help us get there) it helps people to know what I’m working on, so if your “what I’m proud of” helps me get closer to my big vision / goals for the company, you better believe I’m going to try to sit down with you or get someone who can.

    “Problem solvers vs Problem identifiers”

    This question susses out the difference pretty quickly. It helps separate those who want to talk about a problem from those invested in solving that problem. “

    The “What are you proud of” question is not well answered by I’m doing too much work, that is what I am proud of.

    It is well answered by “ for the last 6 weeks I’ve been working to automate ABC time consuming tasks, last week it worked, saving me 3 hours and I think I can scale this to others too.

    Here’s an example of a dialogue with a person at Seer, notice how I also get my exec team CC’ed so they too know what this person is doing, which helps them prioritize whom to meet with as well.

    There are some issues

    Women vs Men — Specifically there could be a male / female dynamic where one gender isn’t as good as advocating for themselves. Doing it this way at least I have data I can join to people’s gender from my HR tool to the answers here to keep me in check.

    Squeaky wheel — this isn’t the kind of thing to fill out every week, you need to help coach people on what are good updates by mediocre ones. Mediocre updates are fine, but they may not be as likely to get responses.

    Execs / Managers — Its important to make sure your executives know its important to respond. (That part is very hard to track). My leadership style is one where I prefer to lead by example and see who “gets it” but sometimes you need to be more explicit.

  • I stopped have back to back meetings


    I’ve always struggled with my desire to work and my desire to spend time with my team. At one point I found myself feeling stressed running from one meeting to the next to the next with no time in between.

    I’m one of those people who HATES looking at his watch in a meeting, I like to show the person I’m engaged. For some reason, checking time in a meeting has always felt a bit rude to me, so I disliked that feeling. By removing back to back meetings, I can allow them to “spill over a little bit” and stay engaged if I need to.

    I’m bad with note taking in meetings, always have been, working on it every day, still I’m a 3/10 on my best day. Giving myself 15–30–60 minutes in between meetings enables me to do a little prep for my next one, and wrap up my thoughts from the current one. Back to back meetings make me a bit anxious because I know I’m more likely to be forgetting something, and when I get to take notes, the 2–3 back to back meetings start to blend together, making me less accountable to the meeting I was in.

    It gives me time to decompress, I disliked running into a meeting almost out of breath b/c I was trying to stay in one and make it to the other. It just felt a bit crazy to run from, one to the next.

    Admittedly I’m fortunate in that I spend probably 50% of my time out of meetings, whereas other roles might spend more of their time in meetings and might not have a choice. On occasion it still happens, but I find having this as a rule of thumb to be quite helpful.

  • Death, Data, and Decisions…


    For 3 of the last 5 years, I’ve driven cross country 6 times to work from our west coast office. Why drive? Well my wife is extremely uncomfortable with putting the dog on a 5–6 hour flight. So our agreement is I drive the dog out there, no big deal, I have come to love the challenge of the drive and the open road and ability to listen to some great books / podcasts.

    Me and the dog on the way back

    Before leaving I mentioned to Nora, you know that by asking me to drive cross country with the dog I’m more likely to die than if we flew the dog. ← Don’t say this to your wife.

    I had my data:

    Dog likelihood of death: In 2016, in the US there were 26 deaths of animals in cargo. Or .5 deaths per 10,000 flights (source).

    My likelihood of death while driving: 11 in 100,000 people die in auto fatalities. (source)

    My likelihood of death while flying: LOW AF! I’m 100x more likely to die in a car crash than a plane crash. (source)

    These are facts. Now lets talk about the things I can’t prove with data

    If I’m driving with the dog, I bet the likelihood of the dog and I dying if I die in a crash are pretty high. The odds of me dying in a crash and the dog living are slim. So if I go, we’re probably BOTH going. Also outside of the data…

    I’m more valuable to my wife than the dog. 
    I bring in an income, the dog costs money.
    I can help take care of the kids, the dog growls at the kids.
    The kids might actually like to have their dad around in 5–10–15 years from now.
    I’m still in the prime of my life, the dog has 2 maaaaaybe 3 years left.

    She got a bit upset…

    I mentioned this to my wife and she got pretty upset. Was she upset at herself for making a decision on emotional stories she’s heard that have no rooting in statistical facts? Nope. She didn’t want to deal with thinking about the implications of her decision. (Of course we could have said, just stay in Philly and don’t go to SD to lower the odds), but taking that off the table.

    I recognize both odds are low, so I drove.

    Unfortunately I thought about this for a good 4–5 hours as I drove through new mexico in a blizzard…which My likelihood of death increased a good bit…

    A DANGEROUS lesson in optimization

    Google maps kept optimizing to get me to Tuscon, it never said the local government keeps shutting down roads due to the blizzard, so find a hotel, instead it gave me smaller and smaller roads to go on, more and more of them were over mountains, where I couldn’t see, and I saw no cars for miles, it was scary.

    This is effing New Mexico Ya’ll.

    When I do these drives I invite alumni and current peeps to call me just to talk, during this part of the drive I told both Kim Jones and James Corr that I’d call them back after the weather got bad, it took me HOURS to call them back as I had to use every ounce of mental energy to stay focused.

    My likelihood of death skyrocketed for that 4–5 hours, I saw cars spin out in front of me and crash (at 15–20 Mph), I couldn’t see, it was hard to drive, my wipers kept freezing, I had no mobile signal, and I didn't know where I was. I couldn’t see any houses, just mailboxes on the road.

    The only thing that kept me hopeful was seeing a car coming in the opposite direction every 15–20 minutes. So yeah I probably spiked likelihood of death for sure, as I had to get out of my car multiple times to see where the cliffs dropped off to make sure I wasn’t close to the edge. When I finally got to a place with a traffic light after 3 hours of slooooow driving, I slid through an intersection on ice, luckily the guy coming through saw me unable to completely stop, he saw my tires locking up, luckily I went through the intersection at only about 5 MPH, so I wouldn’t have been taken out, but man that one sucked.

    Luckily it all worked out.

    A BIG lesson about data & emotions, no one is immune

    My wife is a smart woman, 2 undergrad degrees, 2 masters, and a PhD with a background working in data. So I would have thought, making a case with data doesn’t work on the “average” person, but my God, my wife no way. She’s smart gets the data parts.

    Boy was I wrong, this goes to show the power of emotions, sensational headlines (“Dog dies in cargo hull”), and a whole lot of other things at play. My wife was saying in theory: if you want to eliminate the likelihood of death, don’t go to San Diego, but if you must you are driving with the dog because it makes me uncomfortable to fly the dog in cargo, even though that means you are more likely to die, which means I lose my partner, who is in the prime of his life, and adds more value to the family than the dog.

    As I embark on MORE DATA, I’ve seen this first hand. If my big data pull says we don’t need content, or we don’t need links to win, with data, statistics, etc, and someone at the table had pitched a big link building project or their title is link builder or copywriter, they are highly likely to refute data, with their gut. Why? Because it impacts their perceived self-value to the organization, if someone came in with a bunch of data that might even hint at invalidating how I see my value in the organization, its in my best interests to fight it.

    The true test of being data driven is when you value accurate data over data that validates what you want the data to say. That’s what I’m learning. Too often we go in with a desire for what the data is going to tell us, and if it doesn’t tell us that we’ll fight it tooth and nail. Look no further than the Semmelweis effect.

    Voting against your best interests

    This got me thinking, we make fun of people when they do X thing we don’t understand, vote against their best interests, etc, and educated people like us think things like “dumbasses voting against _______ , this is going to HELP you, why would you want to get rid of it?” yet “those people” are being just as irrational as we are with all of our smarts. I don’t mean to make this political, but I sit in a lot of conversations where people “just don’t understand” how people make their decisions.

    I know I used to say that a lot, now I’ll think twice about that, thanks hun.

  • Robbing my kids of being raised by blue collar parents


    This morning, my son says, we’re going on vacation soon. I can’t help but frown. I want to say… Son, your whole effing life till this point has been a vacation, you’ve seen more countries by 4 than I did by 30. He’s 4, he doesn’t get it, nor should he, he’s a kid. So I laugh it off but it prompts me to write this post that’s been brewing up inside.

    Inheritance, yeah right, these kids aren’t getting squat

    Ok, that’s a lie, they are getting 1/2 the value of a home in our neighborhood. That’s it. Everything else goes to charity.

    My kids have ridiculous privilege & advantage! Giving them an inheritance ain’t gonna help them be grounded that is for sure. Whenever people ask me about wealth and helping set up future generations of the Reynolds clan, they are always shocked by my position:

    1 — My kids ain’t never lifted a finger at Seer Interactive. Just like anyone else on the street who hasn’t helped Seer doesn’t get a dime why should they get a chance to “run things” someday, nope. They can build their own thing, just like I did, my parents gave me values, they didn’t help me with my valuation.

    2 — My kids have effed up my career, yeah I said it. Having kids and also trying to be a decent dad (and husband) means I have said no to a lot of client meetings, client work, and conferences. For instance my wife has a conference in Africa for a week, I’m not doing conferences where I could have picked up work, bonded with team members, and saw clients to personally, make sure we’re living up to our end of the bargain. So having kids has been a net negative on growing the value of Seer if you think about it. Worth it, absolutely, but I have to be honest.

    3 — I’ve done enough. The connections they’ll have, the network, the privilege they’ll have, the schools, tutors, experiences. I think I’ll have done enough to set them up for success. Heck their “uncle” is Rand Fishkin 🙂 His network is vast. Their “Aunt” De-De (his wife) just won a James Beard award. Yeah these kinds have a stronger network that I ever did.

    My Dad Missed Every Christmas, and I don’t love him any less because of it.

    My dad pretty much missed every Christmas, and I never thought anything of it. “Son, I can work a double” is what he’d say every time, he could double down that night shift and make that money, which paid for those gifts under the tree. It was my normal, dad wasn’t there on Christmas.

    My mom had one of those Christmas Club savings accounts, saving a little each pay period to provide us gifts. They budgeted and as kids we knew that things had to be planned financially. We never wanted for anything, but we saw them sitting around looking at clipboards of our finances (my mom was a legal pad and clipboard kinda gal).

    Could you imagine today if I said to my family, Oh I’m going to work on Christmas!!?? I’d be revered as the worst dad ever, no work/life balance, my priorities are off, etc etc.

    Even “worse” my dad took vacations with us maybe 2/3rds of the time. He’d say, I work and pay for it, you guys go. To be honest I think he’d rather that. Vacations were every 3 or 4 years, not 2–3 trips per year like my kids get.

    For many of us kids of blue collar parents, who worked doubles, night shifts, holidays for that extra scratch, we don’t love them any less because they weren’t there, let me not speak for everyone. I know I didn’t. My parents worked not to be broke.

    Being a regular kid with regular parents made me EVERYTHING I am today.

    I know I can’t give that to my kids. Sure I can try to expose them to things, but exposure to homelessness for 2 hours at a soup kitchen is nothing when in 2 weeks you are taking a “vacation” to France, Spain, and the UK with your family. It’s just a different life and I feel that being raised that way was INSTRUMENTAL in how I turned out and where I am today and its sad to think, I can’t really give that to my kids. I can give them parts of it, but never the whole. That saddens me.

    I dream…would my kids be better people if they were raised the way I was? I can’t help but think, yes they probably would. I also think, man my parents never even thought about this kinda crap.

    I listen to the conversations of my friends, we talk about privilege, we talk about cultural capital, me too movements, micro-aggressions, diversity and inclusion, micro-greens, blog post ideas, and I can’t help but think…

    Listen to yourself Wil, you talk about things your parents never contemplated…

    Here’s an example…I was raised to know that privilege existed, but my parents spent zero time thinking about it, talking about it, they stated facts… Wil, if you and a white kid are both the same level, most times the white kid is going to get picked over you in sports, jobs, life. So work harder, we don’t wanna hear some kid not as good as you got picked for student council, work harder Wil…this is the world. I can’t help but think that maybe what makes me who I am is the fact that I was raised this way my parents gave ZERO FUCKS on talking about what’s fair, they talked about what’s REAL and prepared me for that. End of discussion.

    Here’s another example:

    Me: Mom / Dad I want a car with tinted windows and a bazooka bass tube.
    Parents: you know being a black man you are more likely to get pulled over, you get a car like that you are making it more likely, we aren’t paying for your tickets or bailing you out of jail, get it?
    Me: Got it. (only got pulled over once in that car, ha!)

    Or another:

    Me: Dad I wanna take French.
    Dad: French, how the fuck you gonna use that? I don’t work 3 jobs and pay to send you to private school for French. You are taking Spanish.
    Me: Ok. End of discussion.
    Dad: Yeah, end of discussion.

    Today, my son would be like I have “agency” or “choice” back then it was like I pay I make the rules.

    Here is what my parents did:

    Pay bills & save $$ (for retirement)
    Watched a TV show or two
    Tried to raise good kids
    THAT’S IT!

    Is that life better for my kids? I dunno, but its simpler as a parent.

    And “raise good kids” wasn’t conversations around, screen time, or exposure to other cultures, some study on whether the kid should study Mandarin or Spanish, or my dad asking himself “am I gone from the kids too much” — it was:

    The definition of raising Good Kids was simple too:

    Get good grades, no goofing around
    Be respectful. You better be calling people Mr. and Mrs.
    You finish what you start, you never quit on things you said you would do.

    I wonder if this will ever go away?

    Even the way we walk about raising our kids… I recently took off most of the day for my son’s birthday, Nora asked “I thought you were taking the whole day”, to which I stopped and thought… am I setting my kids up someday to be sad or think dad doesn’t care if I don’t take a day off for their birthday, its like look kid my world doesn’t revolve around you, no way am I taking off the whole day.

    And there it is, once again, the questions that I as a parent w/ unlimited PTO…should I have taken more or less time, am I doing right? I can hear my dad over my shoulder, boy fuck that. Do the best you can and let the chips fall where they may, be honest with yourself, know where your heart is, and let it go. Get back to freaking work you snowflake.

    Thanks Mom & Dad. If there’e anyone I should be spoiling, it’s you guys!

  • Are all small businesses always better than big corporate?


    I’ve been running my company Seer Interactive in the same neighborhood for 13 years. I’ve had a lot of coffee experiences. I must spend minimum 20 dollars a week having coffee meetings with my team.

    13 years * 52 wks/yr = 676 * 20/week = $13,000 from just one patron.

    And given that in Philly we’re at ~130 people, and I see execs and others meeting at coffee shops, we’re probably well over 50k in coffee, then we have the clients & individual team members who get their personal fix = 100–150k easy.

    The closest coffee shop to Seer is [Café 1]. Good place, good coffee, cozy interior, local ownership, everything you’d want from your local spot. It’s a local business, so we’d like to support em right? WRONG!

    Well one day about 7 years ago when we were maybe 25 people or so, our internet went out, and we fanned out in the neighborhood looking for wifi. We walked to [Café 1], as soon as about 10 of us got there I gave 50 dollars to the woman at the counter as a tip, we ordered food and coffee, and went upstairs. The upstairs can hold about 20–25 people.

    As we were working for about an hour, someone walked by saying under their breath:

    “I hope these people paid somethin’’”

    I said, “hey we gave the person at the front a 50 dollar tip” her response

    “I don’t get any of that”.

    I knew right then and there that I wasn’t going to love this being our main place, but we had no where else to go so for years so we supported the place, begrudgingly.

    In spite of seeing me and several team members there for YEARS, day in day out. No one knew my name or any names of any of us who came in regularly.

    They also made it hard to work with them:

    Do you accept Amex: No.
    Do you have Apple Pay / Google Pay. No.
    Can I charge my coffee — Nope, $10 dollar minimums
    No discounts for Seer

    They actually made it difficult for us to give them our money.

    Oh and the wifi, don’t even get me started, this low trust environment was all about changing the wifi, EVERY DAY, so people couldn’t “steal” from them. So to dissuade 1 or 2 a-holes, they make life difficult for hundreds of REPEAT customers.

    I’ve always been a believer that changing rules for the majority , because of 1 or 2 a-holes in the minority is a cultural death trap.

    The San Diego wake up call

    Seer’s first office in San Diego was near a café called Pappalecco.

    Rio Digs The Cookies More Than The Coffee

    I would go for 2 months to San Diego, and then maybe a week or two here or there through the year. Within 1 year people there remembered me, knew my name, “Caio my friend, where you been?” I’m not even there weekly. So, when I’d fly in after not being there for 3 months, they would say, that is 10x more than anyone at [Café 1] ever said to me.

    They made it easy for me to work with them & I wanted to b/c they were just friendly people:
    They took my credit cards regardless of amount, 
    they took my Amex, 
    the wifi was the same password from a month or two ago.

    [Café 1] Gets some competition, YES!

    Little do people know, I hated giving our money to [Café 1] so much that I thought about hiring a barista @ Seer. We opted for a machine that grinded beans. 🙂

    Then we got lucky a new café opened up, another local spot, small business. Then I went in, oh god, not only did the manager talk to their people like crap (they were young people) but the baristas just didn’t know anything really about coffee. They closed as quickly as they opened, as much as me and the Seer crew were excited about this new cafe, we all quickly realized it wasn’t gonna work.

    Back to [Café 1], GRRRRRR.

    The big evil Starbucks came in

    Then Starbucks came, people there are friendly very friendly, there’s diversity (I’m writing this from Starbucks and of 5 employees 3 are black males and 1 is a white female and 1 male). They wait for it…accept all credit cards and wait for it, don’t force you to charge at least 10 bux.

    I have no idea what the owner of [Café 1] name is, we see each other in the hood all the time, we’re strangers even though us being in this location has added 6 figures to her biz.

    At the end of the day, Starbucks is much more customer friendly, when you walk in their baristas are friendly, today (4/23) 4 people said hello when I entered, 4 people of 5 said hello.

    Yesterday the manager said more to me in 1 day than the owner of [Café 1] has said to me in 6–7 years!! He asked me why I’m there so much.

    The WiFi, OH THE WiFi!!

    Log in once and we’ll remember you… ummm THANK YOU!!!

    No more daily tap dance of, large latte please, oh and whats the wifi password?

    “Capital A, Dollar sign, Dollar sign, five, seven, snow white, capital P, Philladelphia” every single day.

    Not to mention, their baristas (part time and full time) are given opps for 100% tuition free college, improving their upward mobility (in a city with the third highest income gap and the biggest poverty rate in the US).

    I love when I’m in there seeing 8–10 Seer staffers coming through. We’ve abandoned Café 1 (for the most part). You can only get away for so long treating your customers like crap.

    I for one, as a 13+ year resident and business owner in the neighborhood am thrilled to have a company with this kind of impact here.

    So next time you assume that a small business is better for your community, I would stop and think in most instances, probably, but not always. These things are nuanced.

    Now, if there was a La Colombe or a Saxby’s closer, I might have to reconsider, cause, well how could you not love Todd & Nick.

  • Safety, Cities, Kids & Life


    I wanted to write this for every person like me who espouses all the great parts of living in the city, but rarely talk about the day to day frustrations and risks. I also wanna highlight that news is about eyeballs, and just like that car accident you can’t stop looking at when you drive by, news stations are the WORST source to get a feel for how safe or unsafe city living is. There’s no money to be made in reminding people that today 1.5 Million people went through XYZ city and no one got murdered by a stranger, today, this week, or this month.

    Kickin it in Rio De Janiero (yes we felt safe)

    My neighbor was held up at gunpoint, a sawed off shotgun, pointed at his face, he was told to get out of his car and get down. He listened. They then put the barrels on his skull and told him not to move. He listened. They sped off in his car, I woke up 20 minutes later and went on my morning run, missing being a victim by 20 minutes.

    One of my 4 year old son’s classmates father got murdered while his 2 year old daughter was in the back seat, over a wallet he was giving to the assailants, just not fast enough. Thank you Philly PD for catching this teenager, lock him up, throw away the key, fine with me.

    One morning in our San Diego apartment 2 months ago, I woke up for my morning run 6am-ish, when I opened the door, 20 police officers pointed at me and told me to get back in my apartment…5 minutes later they knocked, asked me what I heard…little did I know a guy was murdered on my floor. I walked outside, TV cameras everywhere, I went for my run.

    My…KIDS!

    I thought about my love of living in cities and how that might put my kids at risk. That is real. I think its natural for a second to say, would I move over this?

    But I couldn’t help but think of all the upside, the breweries with the kids, the ease of a great meal with Nora, the date nights at some of our favorite spots. The random face painting and movie nights we can choose to stop by or meet at on my way home from work. The ease of getting around, the walking by the place we got married every couple of months, I stop and stand on those steps and close my eyes and try to remember the joy of the day and vow to try to keep that feeling / get that feeling back.

    Then there’s other things I look forward to, that will be harder conversations as my boys get older. Drugs, homelessness, pride festivals, etc, those things will be more front and center as my neighbor is gay, we’ve seen homeless people living 500 feet from my front door, and I know that seeing them will spark meaningful conversations around not everyone getting dealt the same hand in life. Seeing someone strung out on heroin, unable to cross the street while cars are approaching will spark conversations that I could more easily avoid elsewhere. I will definitely miss them playing in the backyard with space like I did, riding their bikes around the hood. Etc.

    Selfishly there’s me too. I get to walk to a pusha T concert if I want to, a brewery the next day, and take a 15 minute subway to see the phillies the next, I get all these options to enrich my day to day life, I can quite literally decide to get a drink on the way home and that could be a fancy cocktail, a cripsy IPA, at a fancy place or a place frequented by the local construction crews.

    In all instances of violence near me, I quickly concluded that, I wasn’t going to move. It was an easy decision why? Because my life is about thriving, not just surviving, its about variety, diversity of thought, income, etc, seeing new exhibits b/c we can walk to it in 5–10 minutes, its about not living the same life every day.

    Then there’s the data… always the data…data is my safety blanket when I might make a decision on fear. (This is how I got over my fear of flying, I kept flying).

    I could drive every day to work and get out of the city — Probability of dying in a car crash: 1/10,574 (in PA I believe).

    I also look at likelihood of being murdered by a stranger, hard to find data but this is what I could, in NYC there were 334 murders in 2013, just 29 victims didn’t know their killer (less than 10%). Here are stats for Philly, but they don’t have the “stranger” component, but if we take 10%, that is 30 victims per yer in a city of 1.5 Million.

    The likelihood of all these things happening are slim, and that is why I decide to stay in cities every day.

    I’m a city guy and a city parent through and through, I’m not disillusioned about the risks, but I don’t wanna live a life that is safe, I want to live a life that is fulfilled and to me the easiest way to do that is to live in the city.

  • The $200,000 mistake & what we learned


    This one is painful. Times have been so great for Seer that I haven’t had as much pain to share in a while, well that changed at the end of December 2018, as we wrapped up a great year.

    First, we lost our largest client after a great run with them. So we already had to buckle in for a slower growth year in 2019, all good as I was MEGA proud of the team to be able to retain one of the fastest growing companies on the planet in their largest division on a global project for 5 years.. The client gave us a ton of heads up so I appreciated that, it gave me time to prepare our company for what was going to come, we have a strong nest egg, so I thought…we got this.

    Halfway through the year I made everyone in the company book a vacation paid in part or whole by the company, the team had been working quite hard and we had profits to deploy.

    Then as we approached the end of the year in spite of us knowing that this client was leaving I doubled down on bonuses. I didn’t need all those profits to stay in the company and our nest egg covered us. As the year started wrapping up, I was letting Steve and Crystal know I wanted to deploy these profits to the team in a meaningful way.

    Then I got the call from Crystal. Wil, I gotta tell you something, its big.

    Gulp.

    I found out we overspent for the client that left us by 200k in a matter of 38 days. Which means I also wasn’t going to be in a position to make it back over a year or two, I couldn’t waive fees, I was effing stuck. They were already leaving and we were helping to transition to the new agency. I hadn’t announced the bonuses, so in theory I could have peeled them back a bit and covered the 200,000 overage from just a part of what I was holding for the team, but that didn’t feel right.

    Crystal was already communicating this to the client, that we’d make it right. It’s an easy choice, if someone did that to us, that’s what we would want them to do. So there was never a question in our minds that we were going to return this money.

    Here’s some of the lessons I learned…

    Fire people…

    I’m a believer that the people who caused the issue to happen are probably the most dedicated to helping you fix it. Firing them means you’ve just let go the person in your company closest to the issue, who is also feeling some heat and likely would like an opportunity to make it up to the company. That person is probably more dedicated than anyone else in the company to solving the problem. I bet that that person / team is probably thinking “I want to save anyone at Seer from ever feeling this way”. This quote played in my head as I thought about how to address this.

    If people see someone fired at the first sign of a mistake, you teach people that the way to keep their job is not fucking up. If your job is to not fuck up, you don’t innovate b/c it could risk your job. While this was more of an oversight than an innovation mistake, this also rang in my head as well. I want people to feel safe to innovate here.

    But give them a tight timeline

    Remind people of the gravity, in our case it was like this mistake cost us 5% of our profit (200k) and probably 15% of our divisional profit. To make up that hit we would probably need to land 6 new projects that same day and have them be with us all year. This is serious.

    The strongest folks will come to you with a plan with an aggressive timeline. If they don’t, push them. At this point if you gotta work on the weekends that’s what you are going to have to do. If you gotta spend $1,000 of your own money to take a class to build the solution, that’s fair, I just lost $200k I think $1,000 is fair and you’ll gain skills.

    Get an early feel, do they act like the house is on fire and they are running in to put it out, or are they still leaving at the same time they used to, coming in at the same time, not communicating regularly, etc? This is a BIG deal and you gotta feel them out quick.

    Growth brings complex problems

    The skills required to run a project of this scale are different then the skills required to run most other projects. If you’ve been growing and promoting internally, you might want to stop and ask yourself, wait a second, do we need some new / different skills to help guide us that have been there / done that? Very few of us do that in the midst of killer growth, but one day something breaks and now what was a small number a few years ago, is a BIG ONE because your clients got bigger.

    Stop right now. Seriously this is a threat… where has a division grown from where it was 2–3–4 years ago, and what are you still holding on to?

    Pay attention to early warning signs

    We missed the opportunity to build the solutions we are building now as a result of this loss. The few times we had a $5,000 overspend here and there we didn’t pounce on it with the vigor that we should have. We chalked it up to an occasional overspend and an honest mistake, we didn’t stop and think, what if we had a client who spent 20 Million a year, that small mistake we learned from last year is in a whole new ballpark.

    Respect your growth

    We are great with how we manage budgets but this client is the kind of client to throw 1–2 million additional for you to spend on an initiative for 1 month. So our systems worked, but just a few days over starts to add up REAL quick. Don’t wait until it’s too late to pressure test your processes/systems as your clients and their complexities grow; as the human error and mistakes grow exponentially.

    Again stop. Ask yourself, what process do I have today that I would need to model out our growth at 2x 3x, or 5x. Steve recently walked our exec team on a conservative growth exercise over 10 years. 10 years from now we’d be about 1,000 people if we kept growing at a similar clip, imagine the things that break down.

    Management structure, contract structure, office space, how the hell do we recruit for that many people? How many of our nice perks would be open for abuse that we couldn’t track. When you are flying that many people around, what kind of discounts can we get from airlines, it goes on and on, but it’s worth it. etc etc etc.

    Communicate it and let it go

    I think about this every day, every. freaking. day. But I can not allow that to impact how I treat my team members, but its going to be effecting me, maybe I put more pressure on getting deals done (to make up for the loss), or innovating on a solution (to make sure this doesn’t happen again), or I get tight on expenses for the next few months, rejecting things I used to approve. You start doing that, if you haven’t communicated this issue team wide, people are going to start wondering:

    Why is Wil checked out, why is Wil distracted, why is he freaking out about getting this deal done, why why why…

    That’s why you have to communicate it, to have a “dog in the fight” and combat rumors. Don’t let your team “make up” a narrative, but if you don’t tell em, they are going to make it up.

    Communicating it also shows the gravity and allows other team members to come in with the firehose to help. (BTW asking your founder “how can I help” isn’t very helpful, it places the cognitive load back on me to think of your skills and how you can help at an already stressful time) try saying something like…I’m going to talk to person X and present you 3 options by Y date.

    Letting it go

    You are going to be interacting with the people who had visibility over this issue, that lost profit prevents you from doing all kinds of things, that ferrari I wanted to buy (sike), that vacation I wanted to take with my kids and my wife, that bonus I wanted to give to the team, that office build out I wanted to do, that new office opening, all the things I wanted to do with that $$ and its just gone, poof. Seeing those people every day in all honesty can become a reminder of what you “don’t have”, what you couldn’t do, etc etc. You have to just suck it up, you are an executive of a growing company, if you are going to go around giving those people the stink eye every day, or reminding them every day of their mistake that just gets abusive / shitty. It also deflates their desire to fix the problem.

    Culture check

    this is the kind of thing that helps you see how your execs and team members act internally and externally in times of crisis. Do they stay transparent with the team, how do they balance telling people but NOT throwing others under the bus? You’ll see your team tested, keep an eye out for it.

    Leaders step up

    Who is saying to you

    “I can’t take my bonus in good conscience”
    “Look you in the eye and say I’ll solve this by date”
    “Wil, I gotta tell you what I plan to do about this”

    To them it’s like putting a man on the moon, exactness is everything. Here’s a running total of how much you lost & I’m going to make half of that up by Dec 31st 11:59 pm. Here’s my plan.

    Ineffective leaders in times of big mess ups tuck tail and avoid tough conversations. I’ve seen people make mistakes and basically avoid talking to me for months. I lose respect for those people, you gotta own it.

    Insurance

    We hoped insurance would cover this, errors and omissions right? We made an error and we should be covered, right? WRONG. So make sure to talk to your insurance agent, get the insurance before you need it, b/c when you are growing, everything is about team growth, client growth and managing that, rarely does anyone say in the midst of all this growth, what about our E&O insurance now that we’re landing these big deals.

    We’ll be better as a result

    This mistake, while costly, has caused us to innovate, question processes, and create timelines to improve them. It also was a culture check, did we share this transparently, yes, did we give people a chance to make it up, yes, did my executives do the right thing in the face of this, yes, are our clients better off because of this, yes, did we learn, OH YOU BET WE DID!

    On to the next.

  • If you want help with work life balance, define it.


    We’ve all heard this from friends.

    I feel XYZ way about my work / life balance.

    I’ve realized for me work life balance or whatever its called, is less about how much I work, its about flexibility, I’d rather work 50–60 hours a week and be able to work from Rio for 3–4 hours a day and spend the rest chilling with the fam then to have a 40 hour a week job where I “run out of vacation days” or can’t work remotely for 2–6 hours a day for 2 weeks if that is how I achieve balance.

    I find that running a company, can suck hours out of your life in ways you’ll never realize until its too late.

    Was working an hour before this was taken on a weekend, for some people this is NOT balance for others it is. And that is OK.

    3 reasons why talking about work life balance with team members is difficult

    1 — It’s very individualized. One person's work life balance is another persons BORING job, and vice versa. So as a manger, make people define work life balance in detail, is it about the # of hours? It is about the type of projects? Is someone OK working a 50 hour week, as long as 10 of those hours are work from home? Some people need 8 small vacations, others need 1 long stretch for 3 weeks to recharge.

    2 — It’s a moving target. When I was in my early 20’s working a 55 to 65 hour week (on occasion) was fine. I enjoyed moving up in my career fast. I saw marketing as a contact sport, the more I worked the more I learned, the more learned, the more tests I ran, I would have a larger library to pull from. When I finally landed a job that didn’t reward me for working over 40 hours, I sought out volunteering to fill the space. I didn’t know how to just work 40 hours a week, that was boring. People’s life stages change, if you asked me what balance was in my 20’s it was different than today. If you asked me 2 weeks before my first son was born my definition of balance would be different.

    3 — It’s mushy and rarely data driven. One of the biggest issues I have, is like any life goal, you need to know when you’ve achieved your “enough”. That is one reason alone to track your hours like a hawk, it helps you to look back with a clearer head, it helps you avoid recency bias. How do you know when you have achieved work life balance? What early warning signals will tell you you are falling out of balance? Do you have an early burn out warning signal?

    I challenged myself…if I had to only have 2 metrics one to determine work balance one to determine life balance, what would they be?

    In that way I can see if I am fulfilling my work effort in harmony or at the expense of my life side of the equation.

    So my metrics are Revenue & the # of Months where I have spent more than 5 nights away from the family. Its an early warning signal that I might not be getting the life part of the work life equation.

    Let’s take revenue (and revenue where we make a profit revenue, not we’re growing revenue, but aren’t making profit crap! I hate making that the number, but if I only have 1 metric, then if revenue is right a lot of other things in the business just work. Now I recognize that it’s wholly possible to hit revenue in an Enron, Wells Fargo, or Uber kind of way — I’m going to assume that we’re not doing that.

    If revenue is trending in the right direction (especially if that revenue growth is coming mostly from referrals), So many other thing are possible:

    We can have office space that we can leave unused for community events (fulfills my desire to impact our community).

    We can take more risks / innovate — this helps us grow, but also gives people new opps to grow in their careers at Seer.

    We can become more competitive w/ the kinds of raises and bonuses that hopefully help people feel valued by distributing more of our profits.

    The other metric, time away from the family…

    How many days in a month is too many away from my family? Well that # for me is 5, here is about how that came to be. But ultimately you can see that in almost 3 years I’ve only had 2 months where I went to 6 days in a month, 1 month where I was at 5. (Note this was done before my last 2 months, which I was at 5 & 6, prompting me to write this post on trimming back to only 5–6 international conferences next year vs going through 7 in Q4 alone). See its my early warning signal before life gets out of balance.

    What metrics make you proud. Don’t answer just think. Is it $, rev, profit, streams, views, followers? This is why I try hard to not get wrapped up in vanity metrics…

    They won’t know I worked a few hours before we got “Agua De Coco” which for me is the best of both worlds, work I love, being able to spend time with the fam in a place I love.

    Work life balance is hard to discuss as long as we can’t define it and put metrics on it. These metrics are far from perfect (aren’t they all)… but they do serve as an early warning signal that maybe something is out of whack, if you had to have only 2 metrics what would yours be?